Okay, this is a problem I have that is coming up soon, and I really do need your advice. Here's the deal. A friend of mine is having a summer party in two weeks. She lives in Sharon Springs and has a beautiful big farm. We see each other every month or two, and I love visiting her home. Okay, here's the problem. So she's having this big party, which sounds great! Horseback riding, bbq, lots of people, etc. But, because she's having about 60 people at her house, she's going to get two porta-pottys to put outside so that she won't have a ton of people going in and out of her house to use the bathroom. Also, all the flushing and everything, and they have a septic tank, so it just makes sense for them to do it. And I get it. However, I HATE using porta pottys. I really really do. It's almost like an OCD phobia for me. I'm not proud of it, but because of the bathroom situation, I think I'm not going to go to the party. Does that make me shallow and horrible? Do you think I should tell my friend, and maybe she'll open her bathroom for me. But I don't want special treatment. This is my real social dilemma for today. So what would you do if you were me? Do you go in porta pottys? Am I being too anal, no pun intended? HELP!