Our social dilemma today comes from Michelle. It's a tough one. I've been in these kinds of situations, and I have to say, if it's not family, then I couldn't do it. Let's help her out. Here's the email I received:
Hi Jaime, I am having a small issue with something that I wanted to ask advise about. My 30 year old son is moving in with me this weekend from florida.I am fine and happy about that. The problem is he wants his friend who I don’t know really well to stay too for a few months. I am not too keen on this as 1 I am not feeding the guy ,2 my place is not that big and I am thinking my husband and my privacy will be infringed upon .what do you think I should do? I don’t want to upset my son I could let the guy stay a couple of weeks but not 3 months.It will feel awkward .thanks . Michelle
Please help Michelle out. I understand how she feels Months is a looooooong time to have a stranger in your home. What would you do?