Today's social dilemma came about after we were having a conversation about Christmas gifts. I was down south and we were discussing who we had left on our Christmas list and I said just about everyone from my sweetie to my mail person. They thought I was joking about the mail person. They said they never get a Christmas gift for their mail person. I said I order lots of stuff and my mail person who happens to be a woman is always kind and nice. I know her by name, and she always has to carry heavy stuff up the driveway to place on our porch. I said she absolutely deserves a Christmas gift for doing all that for me. They said it's her job and you shouldn't get a Christmas gift for doing your job. And then they asked if I get a gift for the trash guys and I said no. Which got me thinking that maybe I should be. So I thought I would ask you. Do you give a gift or a tip to your mailperson at Christmas?? What about the trash guys? I feel good about my mail woman but now I'm wondering if I'm being mean to my garbage collectors. Where do you fall on all this?? Let me know on the TRY Facebook page!