Today's social dilemma came from a friend of mine and I was a little upset with her for her reaction to the situation she was in and I look forward to hearing your opinion on this. I have a friend who is divorced, so she's on several different dating sites to meet new men. I'm cool with that, whatever works, right? Well, last weekend she went out with a guy who sounded lovely. He was also divorced, was very nice to her, great conversationalist, easy on the eyes, all according to her. But when I asked her if she was going to see him again, she said probably not. I told her I didn't understand. What was wrong because everything she had just explained to me sounded great. She said when it came time to pay for dinner, and they had already decided they were going dutch, which is cool, he pulled out a gift card to pay. I didn't understand the problem. She said she thought it was cheap that he would have a gift card to the restaurant they were at. Was that why he picked it? Does it mean he doesn't have money? She went on and on with this. I told her to cut it out and go out with him again and that it wasn't a big deal that he had a gift card. She said it's a warning sign. I've never heard of that. Have you??? What do you think? Is she right, or do you think she's overreacting? I think she's overreacting big time. The guy sounds really nice. What advice would you give her? Help me out here. Let me know what you think on the TRY Facebook page.
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