Today's 98.3 TRY Social Dilemma came from Cherie and it's about dating. Here's her email: Hi Jaime, I'm a 51 y.o. woman who is back on the dating scene. I’ve been seeing this man for a few weeks and I really like him. We’ve been out four or five times and have been intimate with one another. We both said we’re looking for something serious, but I hadn’t committed to deleting my dating apps yet, and he and I haven’t even come close to having a conversation about where our relationship stands now. So when I got a message from another man, I chatted with him for a couple of days and now we’re going out this weekend. I don’t feel like I should tell the guy I’ve been seeing unless things go well on my date. Am I playing with fire here? Should I not go on any dates with other men when things seem to be going well with one guy or is it fair game until we discuss being exclusive? Hope you can help. Thanks ~ Cherie. Dating is not easy, that's for sure. It feels like Cherie is in that inbetween stage, where you don't want to bring up exclusivity just yet, but you also feel bad going out with someone else. I don't think one date will hurt anything, but maybe it's time for Cherie to have the conversation with the man she's been seeing, just to keep things clear. Either way, I don't think she owes anyone an explanation for her dating habits unless she's exclusive with someone. What do you think? Let's help Cherie out and let me know on the TRY Facebook page.
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