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Social Dilemma: My Wife Has Become Secretive About Her Phone

Today's 98.3 TRY Social Dilemma came from Eli and it's about trust. Here's his email: Hi Jaime. I'm having an issue with my wife and I'm hoping you and your listeners can help. My wife and I have been together for 22 years and I feel like we have a great relationship in many ways, but I’ve noticed recently that she's become increasingly secretive about her phone. She always has to have it on her and never lets me see who she's texting. I trust her, or at least I think I do, but this behavior is starting to make me paranoid. Should I bring this up with her, or do you think that I’m overreacting? How far should my trust go? Thanks ~ Eli. Well, I'm not quite sure why it's gone as far as it has. If something is bothering me in my relationship, especially one of 22 years, I would immediately bring it up. It could be something very innocent, like Eli's wife is planning a surprise, or it's something going on with one of her friends that the friend doesn't want shared. But Eli will never know if he doesn't ask. So instead of being paranoid, I say ask the question. If the answer feels wrong, then it's time to figure out what to do next, but you won't know if you don't ask. What do you think? Let's help Eli out and let me know on the TRY Facebook page.

Woman using phone and hiding it from the man on the other side of sofa bed

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