Today's 98.3 TRY Social Dilemma came from Brian and it's about vacations and family. Here's his email: Hi Jaime. I'm having an family issue I hope you can help with. So I’m 42 years old and my wife and I have been married for five years and we have no kids. My mother-in-law lives with us after my father-in-law passed away last year. I love my mother-in-law so it’s not a big deal. The thing that I’m upset about is that my wife and I were planning a last minute summer vacation trip, and my wife wants to bring her mother. We planned on going to a resort in the Bahamas’ and she wants her mom to stay in a different room but to come with us. I thought her mother would refuse to come but she didn’t. She said she’s in. Now I’m really freaking out because I see her every day and now I’m going to have to spend my vacations with her too? The worst part is I can’t say anything. If I tell my wife I don’t want my mother-in-law to come then I’m going to come off as an insensitive jerk, so what can I do? Any suggestions would be great! Please help me out. Thanks ~ Brian. This is a tough situation to be in, but I think it's fair for Brian to want to be alone with his wife for a vacation. I don't think they ever should have asked the Mother-in-law, not for a Bahamas vacation. This is their time to spend together alone. Brian's wife was wrong to invite her. But at this point, I'm not sure there's anything that can be done because the Mother in Law already said yes. What would you do? Let's help Brian out and let me know on the TRY Facebook page.
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